So I try not to feed into the hate of the Internet if I can avoid it. But sometimes you got to talk about it. The number one thing I’ve been seeing and I hate seeing this is how hateful my followers are. And that’s so sad to me. My number one goal on Social media with my animals, with what I share, is to bring joy, educate, and to kind of just show y’all the journey of following my passions and my dreams.
I don’t ever want there to be like a negative side to this, and I honestly did not anticipate this being a problem a couple of years ago. So this is me coming on the Internet to say, if you are a follower of mine and you truly think you know me, which. Parasocial relationships are very dangerous. And let me just say, you don’t know people on the Internet that you’re following.
You don’t. And I appreciate so much people that love my animals and watch my videos. But it does not give a right to speak on my behalf. Go attack people on my behalf. Hate spew on people on my behalf. And I don’t condone any of that ever. And what’s sad to see is that, yes, there are people that make hateful comments about me or to me.
And sometimes the hateful responses from my followers are so much worse than their original comment. Or if people are asking questions and then they just get like jumped down their throat for asking a question, that’s what my whole frickin page is about. I want people to ask questions. I want for us all to learn together. And I also want to just give a little news recap that I am not the end all, be all of horse knowledge and farm knowledge.
Like, I don’t know everything I am learning as I am learning along with y’all. I’m sharing and I learn stuff all the time. I am not like I don’t know everything and I feel like it is. So I’m like, my gosh, Every time someone ask a question or they’ll give their input and then they just get like 50,000 comments that are hateful towards them.
And so I just like that. I don’t condone that. I think it is I think it’s it’s the worst part of the Internet. It really is. So here’s just a couple of things I want us to think about. One, it’s totally fine for people to have different opinions. Now, some people are super annoying and loud their opinions. That’s just always going to be the case.
Humans are humans. We’re all different. We’re always different. We all have different experiences. It’s just the way it is. Number two is that I’m a big girl. If someone’s hateful to me, I can just block them. I don’t really have time in my life for drama. I don’t have time of my life or hate filled stuff. I know me.
I know my heart. I know my family. I don’t care about the assumptions people make about me. So I don’t really condone, even if someone’s being that hateful going after them, I really don’t care. Number three, there are new people watching videos constantly. So if they ask a question that I might have answered in the previous video, that doesn’t mean they’re being hateful or deserve a hateful comment That’s like, stop.
Or if someone else is making content on Tik talk, on Facebook, on YouTube and it’s either not. It’s contradicting something I say or it’s doing something differently than I do. Or if they own a horse, they bought it for me or something like that. And you disagree with them. You do not have the right to, on my behalf, go after them, say hate comments.
Like it is just so inappropriate. It is so not needed. I don’t understand. I really don’t. So again, I really do think bringing light to things like this sometimes is more harmful than good. So I don’t want to make this a trend where I’m talking about this all the time. So this is my video that I’m doing. I hope you watch it.
That’s a beautiful message! It reflects the core values of empathy, kindness, and self-improvement. The idea of treating others with the same respect and compassion that you wish to receive fosters a sense of community and understanding. It encourages people to be patient, open to learning, and to strive for personal growth.
This kind of mindset can make a significant difference in both personal relationships and broader societal interactions. Being kind and striving to do better not only improves your own life but can positively impact the lives of those around you.
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